The Unfortunate

Disclaimer: This post has nothing to do with A Series of Unfortunate Events and Neil Patrick Harris.

As mentioned in the title, I am going to talk about part of the unfortunate in my life in this particular post.

The 'unfortunate' that I am going to mention, I can't say it is a true unfortunate but it is considered as part of the unfortunate because I believe there are more unfortunates in this world. I am truly fortunate enough to have this life, good food, good life, good education, good family everything is fine for me. Part of the unfortunate of my life is not getting much friends, especially male friends in general. I do have male friends, just less.

And also, much and enough doesn't correspond in this post. I have just the enough and fine amount of friends in term of quality, but not in terms of quantity. It's not ashamed to have less friends but the amount of peers I have is just, inadequate.

I used to be in an all boy school during my secondary years. Chances of me knowing and recognizing male friends was certainly higher. But due to some issue, I didn't survive my high school years with bunch of friends. Interpersonal relationship is complicated, I believe everyone encounter it at least once in their life. End up having my life somehow incomplete because rumor has it, you have to graduate with bunch of friends so you get a life. (meh) After high school, I entered college and currently an English Major student.  (Don't question about what am I gonna do after I graduate, save it later.)

Apparently, there is not much male friends in this particular course I am taking. The ratio of female to male students in this particular course is 8:2. Yes, you're right, 8:2 and 2 is for male, seriously. It is a situation where I didn't even imagine before. Having so many years in secondary without a girl, and it changed completely after I entered college. In my mind, I was thinking when I entered college I am gonna be a freshman and be friends with all kind of people and have a gang of bros so we can slay the monsters or discuss about games all day and all night. Also, having to stay in cyber cafes and be a cyber kinda person in my college life with bunch of others gamer boys and stuff. (YOLO to some point at least, make your life worth)

Things didn't go quite well with what I expect. I end up knowing more about cosmetics and skincare and gossips more than games. I am not saying this is not good, at least I get to learn something from the counterpart of male friends. My college mates and I don't actually hang out. A no for yumcha (high tea) as most of my college mates seem to be having their own business to mind. I am keen to stay with a smaller circle so to be honest I don't have much friends in college too. I only workout with those their personality suits me better and we can work and live better. Even we have no time for yumcha or stuff, at least I can get my work done and I feel really soothed and calm to have a few mates who are willing to work together to produce quality work for assignments. So far so good so keep it up.

This wishlist maybe weird, but one of the wish on my wishlist is to have a gang of male friends that we could hang out all time and talk about life together. Aim for the future and see things together. Life may be easier and a lot nicer with a gang of  bros with chemistry and good rapport. Nevertheless, I enjoy my current life for having what I have now. It is a lot more fortunate than some others in this enormous world with all sorts of possibilities.

I appreciate everything in my life and I hope it can be better. Well, I welcome friends to come into my life. Just make sure less drama, that will do the job. Peace.

What is it like to have a sleepy girlfriend?

'Bii, I feel sleepy already.'
'I wanna sleep now.'
'I feel so tired now I can literally sleep if I close my eyes regardless where am I, or how I look. I can sleep even when I'm standing.'
'I am just so reluctant to move, can you help me to get up or carry me to bed?'
'Can I just skip my meal because I'm lazy to get up from bed  to get some food. Or can you deliver food to my bed?'
'I've been awake since 9am but I'm still in my bed and it's currently 12pm'

Well, basically those are the words that I can hear from my significant other part when I'm around her. Sometimes I feel funny when she says those words; sometimes I feel 'oh ma gawd' why is my cutiepie a lazy lady? But to be honest, that doesn't cause much problems to me. Watching her laying there and turning here and there is just a part of my life. Part of my leisure watching her turning here and there on the bed, sofa, chair, table and somewhere where it can be lean on lol.

How to deal with this problem when you found your gf has that kind of symptoms? Simple. It depends on how you gonna deal with it or just leave it there. For me, I will try to fulfill her request whenever she asks for something.
P.S. Well I did that all the time, it's fun, I take it as a kind of communication between us.

Whenever and wherever we go, the sleepy syndrome might follow and happen. I will tell a story about it, not the actual one but the possible situation where all these might happen. Well, someday we just decided to go for a walk around the neighborhood and here's the thing:

To travel to the one particular destination, it takes around 40 mins by car, I'm the chauffeur and she's my lady, sitting not at the back but the side of the car. It's noon time and we start our road trip and after 10 mins of drive she will start to show the signs where she starting to feel bored. (yes, we talk and communicate and laugh but sometimes we don't, and when there is no communication, sleepy syndrome will creep out) She will start to yawn, and yup, fall asleep within 2 mins to be exact. Until we reached or almost reach the destination she will automatically wake up and we got off from the car and start walking, for example, in a shopping complex. At arrival, usually she is quite excited about it, looking here and there for things inside the mall and stuff. The sleepy syndrome is still there but it will come out again once her energy has depleted. During the middle of walk and towards the end of walking in the mall or somewhere else, she can tell me she is tired and need some sleep, so we get some rest in the coffee shop nearby, sit down, order coffee and some food, refill our stamina and continue to walk. After all the walking session in mall, and done with shopping, we travel back home. And, the sleep goddess is here again.

Once she stepped in the car, she will start navigating using Waze. (sometimes I'm not familiar with the road so I need some navigation) But after 5 mins without communication (sometimes she is just too tired to talk then I won't initiate conversation) she falls asleep. The whole journey back home, I'm navigating myself by looking at the Waze on her phone on her hand, but she will be 'fishing' her head front and back, left and right. I enjoyed looking at her sleeping at some point that I think she is too cute to be a human. Sometimes I wonder, I drive and the road might not be always smooth and there might be some slight vibration, she managed to sleep until I drive her home. She will be like banging and spin her head around and around until she wakes up LOL. After she got home, she will lay on the sofa, once again, the sequence repeat lol.

I think a Koala might be the best animal to describe my gf's sleeping habit. She needs a lot of sleep even she slept well the night before or even she said she is energetic when she wake up.

Nevertheless all the sleeps, I won't say a thing but try to save her trouble by doing whatever I think it is necessary when she's asleep and when she wake up, she will be able to continue with what she left before she sleep.

A wise note for all the guys out there:

The more you dote your gf, the prettier she will be; The more sleep she gets, the happier she will be. So guys, let your gf sleep and dote her much much much. No wonder my girl is so damn fine all the time. Your life will be so much better with her smile. Let her proceed with her sleeping session, as an exchange for  her smile, that's worth :D

520

Knowing your imperfections, still choose you
Knowing your impatience once in a while, still choose you

Knowing that you need to be love and care with tender, so I choose you
Knowing that you need someone to comfort you when you're down, so I choose you
Knowing that you don't want to bother people by pushing yourself to the maximum, I am here to share the burdens
Knowing that you always keep things to yourself, I am here to listen to your thoughts

Knowing that you seldom talk about your mind, but actually showing it out in another way; the love and the care for animals you always giving out, is actually the same thing I want to give you. The love the care in the tender way, caress you with hand, understand you by heart, treat you like the way a girl should always be appreciate, love you and teach you to love yourself.

Spare me your time, mind and thoughts, let me understand you, I shall return you the shower of love.
Just for you to know, even when there is no one to love you, I am always here, loving you unconditionally.

You deserved to be love and cherish, my Pri-ncess.
Wish to see you smile and always happy go lucky.
Happy 520