Sunday, February 11, 2018

Why English Language?




It has been awhile since my last post. The reason why I hold myself from writing is due to the lacking of ideas and I have less ideas to express. I want to maintain the quality of work by having real content in my writing than just writing for the purpose of writing. Just want to make sure that my writing is worth reading, even a manual on how to build a rack has its purpose!

Let's get into the topic. The thing that I want to voice out today is regarding the decision of choosing English Language as my major in bachelor degree. For your information, I am currently having my internship in a private school. IT is different when you work in a school and in a corporate, the field is different, but the most important thing is that people in different field they have different kind of mindset with them. People in the school are mostly educators. Set aside of how much they made, they shared their mind on how to shape a better community by teaching and building the students well being and also their achievement in various performances. For them, the best revenue is knowledge.

In school, I had time where I spent with other teachers during the lunch break. They questioned about my major and why you choose English as your major. And of course, I explained my thoughts to them.

P.S. I used to be a science student.

First thing first, I do enjoy study science but there is limitation in it. It is okay for me to make science as part of my hobby and have my own research in this field. but there is a problem for me if I am going to make it my major. I found that I enjoy science better when I am studying it in a way that there is no academic stress on it.
Second, I like to observe how people talk and express themselves. To understand people in a better way, I need to understand the language that they use to express themselves. Understand the essence of the language and a heart with willingness to hear is the best way to understand what people are trying to say. The word expressed doesn't always mean the truth, by observing people you get to know the reason they are holding themselves back from expressing their heart. One, it might be due to the language problem, they are not sure about the word choice to use to construct a sentence that can express their feeling. Another reason will just be they wanna keep the truth with themselves but at the same time giving out the idea or concept.
These situations work when you are the audience, what if today you are the one who are going to do the speaking  and expressing job? Well, having the psychology of knowing how to speak the right thing at the right moment and a good command in language will ease your job VERY WELL.

An extension to the second point:
Other than knowing how to speak, one has to know how to write. Writing is the best way to express oneself. Don't you feel better when you are able to write your mind on a piece of paper or in your diary? You write to express, let people know what you are thinking about. You might inspire people with your writing! So if you have a good command of language, writing will come in handy. For me, I always hope that my work can bring laughter among people or at least broaden their mind by providing information. Everyone has their own style in writing and I encourage people to write to expand their knowledge and eventually they will get used to it.

These are plenty of my mind regarding the topic. Most importantly, try to express yourself by saying it out, or if not, write down your thoughts. Your mind always matter.  

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

The Unfortunate


Disclaimer: This post has nothing to do with A Series of Unfortunate Events and Neil Patrick Harris.


As mentioned in the title, I am going to talk about part of the unfortunate in my life in this particular post.

The 'unfortunate' that I am going to mention, I can't say it is a true unfortunate but it is considered as part of the unfortunate because I believe there are more unfortunates in this world. I am truly fortunate enough to have this life, good food, good life, good education, good family everything is fine for me. Part of the unfortunate of my life is not getting much friends, especially male friends in general. I do have male friends, just less.

And also, much and enough doesn't correspond in this post. I have just the enough and fine amount of friends in term of quality, but not in terms of quantity. It's not ashamed to have less friends but the amount of peers I have is just, inadequate.

I used to be in an all boy school during my secondary years. Chances of me knowing and recognizing male friends was certainly higher. But due to some issue, I didn't survive my high school years with bunch of friends. Interpersonal relationship is complicated, I believe everyone encounter it at least once in their life. End up having my life somehow incomplete because rumor has it, you have to graduate with bunch of friends so you get a life. (meh) After high school, I entered college and currently an English Major student.  (Don't question about what am I gonna do after I graduate, save it later.)

Apparently, there is not much male friends in this particular course I am taking. The ratio of female to male students in this particular course is 8:2. Yes, you're right, 8:2 and 2 is for male, seriously. It is a situation where I didn't even imagine before. Having so many years in secondary without a girl, and it changed completely after I entered college. In my mind, I was thinking when I entered college I am gonna be a freshman and be friends with all kind of people and have a gang of bros so we can slay the monsters or discuss about games all day and all night. Also, having to stay in cyber cafes and be a cyber kinda person in my college life with bunch of others gamer boys and stuff. (YOLO to some point at least, make your life worth)

Things didn't go quite well with what I expect. I end up knowing more about cosmetics and skincare and gossips more than games. I am not saying this is not good, at least I get to learn something from the counterpart of male friends. My college mates and I don't actually hang out. A no for yumcha (high tea) as most of my college mates seem to be having their own business to mind. I am keen to stay with a smaller circle so to be honest I don't have much friends in college too. I only workout with those their personality suits me better and we can work and live better. Even we have no time for yumcha or stuff, at least I can get my work done and I feel really soothed and calm to have a few mates who are willing to work together to produce quality work for assignments. So far so good so keep it up.

This wishlist maybe weird, but one of the wish on my wishlist is to have a gang of male friends that we could hang out all time and talk about life together. Aim for the future and see things together. Life may be easier and a lot nicer with a gang of  bros with chemistry and good rapport. Nevertheless, I enjoy my current life for having what I have now. It is a lot more fortunate than some others in this enormous world with all sorts of possibilities.

I appreciate everything in my life and I hope it can be better. Well, I welcome friends to come into my life. Just make sure less drama, that will do the job. Peace.